Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Divorce


Why is divorce seen as a negative subject? It is one of the most effective adhesive for a splintered married life. Marriages happen, but they do not carry a promise tag of being successful. What is failure of a marriage- it is simply that two people are not getting along well together? What is the big deal? Two colleagues may not get along well, two cousins may not get along well….. So what if two people who are married do not get along well. Why is it a matter of gargantuan concern – WHY??  Why do families or society see it as an ignominy?

Living with someone you cannot live with and making your life an ordeal is completely insane. The wisest decision that can be taken then is to separate and live a sound life. It is more so important if you have kids. The effect of a disturbed marriage on a child is far more excruciating than the effect of a divorce. If a split-up happens, the child will then atleast live with one sane person rather than living with two insane beings.

There is nothing one will attain being part of a distressed marriage. Your reality of life will be unpleasant and people’s belief on your veracity will be false. You will get nothing but despondency and the effect of the same will definitely be misery in every aspect of your life. Your discontentment will be demonstrated in your behavior, even if you choose not to and it will affect the environment around you in a negative way. Communicate with your spouse if something is bothering you, there will either be a solution or conclusion. In either of the situations, your misery will come to an end. Whatever it is, don’t be diffident in taking that step.

You live your life the way you choose to. You have the power and authority to lead your life your way because your life is your treasure; it belongs to you and no one else. Any reason for choosing dejection has certainly to be illogical and if you find any sense in your reason, then you are fooling yourself. Do not waste your precious years living in misery lest you regret later when the time is gone. Explore the radiance of life – it is delightful.